The sun is shining, no clouds in sight, but no matter the weather I choose how I feel.
Hope that by now you understand the tremendous impact that your point of view has on your life.
You control your state of being ---- please go back and re-read our blog archives if you need any clarification on what I am speaking of.
And how you feel or your state of being pretty much determines what you will do or what action you will take.
Note I continue to repeat these things because they are all connected. It is like the "domino effect" --- one item will cause another to react.
So no matter your surrounding, no matter the natural elements in which you find your self in,
no matter the financial condition of your life ----- you get to choose how you see it & how you react to it. Are you using them to empower yourself?
Stop here a moment. No one said this would be easy.
However, change only comes about when you decide it is time to change and take deliberate action towards that goal.
Therefore, it is not the situation {or circumstances you are in} that determines your outcome --------- but rather your determination to change it.
Your determination is shaped by
1. Your viewpoint {focus}
2. Your decision to make a change
3. Your action{s} to accomplish that change
See, each step affects the other and ultimately affects your outcome.
Are you taking empowering steps?
Let us revisit the parable of the pencil:
Your homework for this weekend is to take a good honest look at yourself and decide if you are doing all you should be doing to change your situation[taking empowering action].
Then decide what you will do about it & take action towards that end
For the next couple of days I want to discuss with you the power of words.
It seems simply enough, and yet words can cause us: pain, anguish, anger, pleasure, peace, happiness, they can empower us or deflate us.
In other words, their effect covers the whole spectrum of human emotions.
As you work on your self-improvement insure that you keep this lesson at the forefront of you list ---
--- the power of words is in your hands, use it wisely.
OK then, let us start with you & how your words affect you.
Words come in two (2) forms ---- they can either be thoughts or they can be spoken.
Let's talk about the first; Your thoughts.
This is where it all beings, and it happens so quickly that often we find our mind racing with a certain scenario --- until we put the brakes on.
This is especially true when we get angry ---- your mind will start processing different "what if scenarios."
You will notice that your whole being is pulled into this process,
your pulse will quicken, your body will get tense, your speech will usually quicken,
in other words you are experiencing your thoughts are if they were actually happening. Now ask yourself -- Are they empowering you or not?
I did not say as if your thoughts are real because for your body ----- they are real
Note -- You now can understand the power that words (in whatever state they are) can have on you & if spoken on others.
They can either empower you & others or have the opposite effect.
1. Lesson one ------ control what goes in & out of your mind.
2. Lesson Two ----- control what comes out of your mouth
Today we will concentrate on Lesson #1.
This is a very large lesson to absorb and more importantly it is hard to practice.
It takes a lot of work and patience to do this.
A person's thoughts have a way of just taking off on their own -
- your job from now on is to immediately stop the run-away
process & decide what goes in & come out of your mind.
So what are you feeding your mind What do you read? What do you watch? What do you listen to?
What do you see when you look around your daily surroundings?
In your Home? At your job? In your car?
Make a really good assessment, because what happens is that you become so used to seeing or hearing things that you no longer pay attention -----
---- and yet those very things are there going into your sub-conscious mind ---- feeding it.
Think about what we have discussed today, because once you understand how your environment affects your life, you will be better prepared to change it & empower yourself.
We will continue with more on this topic tomorrow.