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Mar 11, THE EMPOWER YOURSELF STORE

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Mar 11, Free Student Stuff for Adults

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Absolutely free student stuff for the student in you. Lots of free e-books on how to...

Mar 11, Funny Love Teen Quotes

Thu, 11 Mar 2010 02:33:09 GMT

Collection of funny love teen quotes, teen quotes & love poems

Mar 11, Miss You Videos

Thu, 11 Mar 2010 02:27:22 GMT

Collection of I Miss You Videos, I Love You Videos

Mar 11, Love Quotes

Thu, 11 Mar 2010 02:24:36 GMT

Collection of love quotes, romantic quotes, love lyrics, words to inspire, motivate, encourage, and words to make the heart think of love

Mar 11, Bible Quotes

Thu, 11 Mar 2010 01:07:52 GMT

Here you will find bible quotes that inspire and empower you

Mar 8, With God -- There Is No Such Thing As Impossible

Mon, 08 Mar 2010 21:17:55 GMT

When your burden gets heavy, when you have no more tears to cry, when you think you can't go on -- stop help is available --if you just ask. ***** With men it is impossible; but to God all things are possible. Matthew 19:26 ***** Take your focus off your troubles and focus on God -- he is the solution. ***** Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him and He shall direct your paths. Proverbs 3:5-6 ***** Think your problems are "too big" -- they may be for you -- but not for God Just ask IBORO AKPAN from Nigeria or ask Jacques Maurice Julie from Johannesburg, South Africa Thanks Iboro & Jacques for sharing your stories on how God has blessed you. Do not let the lies of the enemy convince you that you don't matter -- You matter -just leave the road you are on and begin your new journey. Do you think you landed on this web page by accident? No my friend -- it is no accident -- now you have a choice to make. ***** In my distress I cried to the Lord, And he heard me. Deliver my soul, O Lord, from lying lips And from deceitful tongue. Psalm 120:1-2 ***** There are millions of people in the world that need to hear the truth. Tell them how God has blessed you -- You can make a difference in someone Else's life by giving. Can't give cash? Or time? -- Give them your testimony -let them know what God has done for you -- you just do not know how many people you will be able to reach and help. Until tomorrow, keep walking Dare To Dream Big Victor Tell your story about how God has blessed you

Mar 8, Revelation

Mon, 08 Mar 2010 15:31:01 GMT

My testimony is in much more detail but i will try to tell it in the best way possible! I am 22 years old. My name is Jacques and i am from South-Africa.

Mar 1, Give From Your Heart

Mon, 01 Mar 2010 15:30:36 GMT

You can make a difference in someone else's life by giving. Think you have nothing to give? --Think Again. One of the important lessons that everyone must learn on their journey to self-improvement is the importance of "blessing others" [giving back to help others]. Helping others will make you stronger, happier, and more empowered -- because you will grow in areas of your life that are normally not covered in self-improvement courses. It is important to remember that in this world -- there is always someone "worst off" than you --someone who needs a "helping hand" or a "few words of encouragement." Take the time to look around and offer that "helping hand" Make a difference in someone else's life today -- Until tomorrow, keep walking Dare To Dream Big Victor Let's hear what you have to say.

Feb 25, Empowering Yourself Take That First Step

Thu, 25 Feb 2010 14:47:59 GMT

Today we look at the essence of this Blog, which is about empowering yourself. We are going to concentrate on that important first step. This will be a review & reinforcement for some and a new beginning for our many new followers. One of the key components of this empower yourself Blog is to keep things simple. Here we go. You want to make a change in your life. Good thats a start, recognizing that a change is needed. Now comes a crucial point in your life; doing something about it -- or as we like to call it taking that first step. Many people will stop at this point because of fears or doubts. Empowering yourself, requires that you take that first step For without action nothing will change. Note -- Some of you will take massive action on the road to empowering yourselves while others will take smaller steps. The fact that you are reading this Blog is a step --- when you come back again, that will be another step. So you see one small step at a time will empower you ---- just keep taking those steps. For those of you who are new to this empowering yourself Blog, please read our prior postings which give you a step-by-step process for reaching your goals. Remember, that empowering yourself is a stepby-step process. Once you decide in your mind that you need to change ---- write down where you are headed in other words your goals. Why is this important? Because this small step will start the process of reinforcing the fact that you are serious about your change. This small step will help you to focus on what you need to do in order to empower yourself. Note - Another component of this empower yourself Blog is repetition of things that are good for you until they become second nature. Now that we got the basics out of the way --- lets move on. You need to look at your written goals on a daily basis, for a number of reasons. To reinforce your commitment to change. To insure that you can measure your progress towards your goals. To make any minor adjustments to your goals. So that you can break down your main goal into smaller sub-goals. Yes it requires a bit of work & commitmentto empower yourself. Dont be afraid or discouraged, instead get excited as you begin this journey of empowering yourself -- There will be ups & downs on this journey just remember this you have to Believe and learn not to repeat mistakes. Empowering Yourself Take That First Step -- keep that fire burning. Until tomorrow, keep walking Dare To Dream Big Victor PS Have any questions, suggestions? Were here just a click away.

Feb 24, Moms Around The World

Wed, 24 Feb 2010 21:05:58 GMT
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Feb 24, Focus On What You Want To Accomplish

Wed, 24 Feb 2010 15:34:23 GMT
Welcome back, today I want to continue with another blog I published last September which is critically important in your quest to reach your goal. Please keep in mind that all the topics we discuss are interconnected. They impact each other -- either positively or negatively. Today I want to reemphasize the importance of guarding what you FOCUS ON. One of the most important points that I have made is that your focus has a tremendous influence on your beliefs & thus on what action you take or fail to take. Please understand that your focus, your beliefs, your feelings, your action, your words, are all inter-connected; one affects the others. You will recall that if you focus on something ---- anything negative --- you continue to relive it in your mind & your body reacts by experiencing all the discomfort, pain, sadness, fears associated with those thoughts. I have recommended several times ---- that a way to break out of this cycle of fear, is to engage your whole body in action ----- by engaging all your senses, you push out the negative thoughts & you start to focus on something positive **Your focus will determine your state of being in other words how you feel. AND how you feel will determine how you see your day and what you do. ** This is the KEY for those of you who are still not sure Stop focusing on reasons why you cant {negative focus}--------- focus on what you can do. [positive focus] That is your start. A picture is worth a thousand words so watch, listen & apply. Note Let me offer a word of caution --- some of your friends & relatives will try to dissuade you from following your goals. They may do it because they dont believe that you can accomplish it or simply because they do not believe it is possible. So prepare yourself, but dont be discouraged. Just dont Quit. Condition your mind to believe in your ability to succeed Until tomorrow, keep walking Dare To Dream Big Do you agree or disagree? Let's hear what you have to say. Victor One final thing to think about ***** "Positive and negative emotions cannot occupy the mind at the same time. One or the other must dominate. It is your responsibility to make sure that positive emotions constitute the dominating influence of your mind." -quote by Napolean Hill ********

Feb 23, Motivation Takes A Little Work

Tue, 23 Feb 2010 20:50:34 GMT
Last September I wrote a blog on how to maintain your motivation. I want to re-emphasize the major points I discussed in that article. Motivation, is a word we hear a lot about. But, how do you maintain your motivation once you start heading towards your goals? There are different methods that will work for different people. Some people are self-sustaining motivators, while others require that occasional push from someone else. Those that are self-sustaining will maintain & increase their motivation by: Reading books, quotes. Listening to motivational tapes. Viewing motivational videos, pictures, posters. Following motivational blogs, newsletters, websites. In addition, they have learned to focus on their goals. {we will go into more detail on focus tomorrow} If you are a person that needs a little push ---- youre in luck --- because that is why we are here. This website is here to help you stay on course. Here is what you need to do. Make sure that your goal(s) are written down. Do not put this off. Make sure your goals are specific. Start to get the tools you will need for this journey. {look at items 1 thru 4 of the list above} If you dont have the money to buy books, video, tapes go to your local library they have great resources for free. But just start. The secret is to start. Do not worry about perfection (getting the right book, tape or video) You will gain something from each step you take. Your motivation will increase as you learn a little more, because that will push you a little closer toward your goals. Do not over-think every step; take action You will find that as you take these small steps your anticipation and joy will increase. And as you start to understand the how and why of staying motivated --- you too will become a self-sustaining motivator. Note Something else that we will cover in the days to come --- sharing what you learn & giving back-- when you help others you also help yourself. Think about it. As always we like to keep things simple. Just the fact that you are viewing this Blog shows that you have the motivation needed to start your journey towards your goals. Take one step at a time and you will get there. Until tomorrow, keep walking Dare To Dream Big Victor

Feb 22, Build A solid Foundation

Mon, 22 Feb 2010 17:00:01 GMT
It is a proven fact that to build a solid house, you need to start with a solid foundation. The same rule applies to building your success. No matter what your goal is, you should start by preparing yourself with as much solid proven information as possible. One of the best ways to prepare yourself is by reading. I have said it many times in my past blogs -- but let me repeat. Your local library is a great source of materials. However, if you can afford to buy some your own books --even better. I find that having my own collection of motivating and empowering books is a great source of encouragement for me. I will re-read the books, always finding something new to think about and to use in my journey to self-improvement. [it is an investment in myself -- my future] In addition to books, I recommend cassette tapes, CDs and videos as a valuable resource to help keep you motivated and inspired. But remember that you need to make a commitment and have a plan [goals] in order to stay on course. If you are just starting out -- start by reading my prior blogs and follow the 5 Step Action Plan --click here Note -- This is a journey you are undertaking -- it is not a one day thing -- your journey to "self-improvement " is a life time journey. Prepare yourself and start walking. Fill your mind with the element of a solid foundation -- with positive, motivating, inspiring and empowering materials -- always looking at your possibilities. Until tomorrow, keep walking Dare To Dream Big Victor Do you agree or disagree? Let's hear what you have to say.

Feb 20, Where Do You Place Your Trust?

Sat, 20 Feb 2010 14:25:35 GMT
Self growth is a process of evaluating your beliefs, your dreams, your actions and your life -- deciding if you are happy and heading in the right direction -- -- if not than making adjustments and taking appropriate action to get you there. At the very center of this, is your belief and relationship with God. ****** Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him and He shall direct your paths. Proverbs 3:5-6 ****** Take time To be thankful. If your mind and heart are at peace, life's everyday ups and downs are much easier to deal with. Have you been blessed? Would you like to share your story with the world? Reach out to others --- you never know what a difference you might make to someone else Make it a point to set aside some quiet time every day to be thankful for what you do have. Too often we spend our days complaining and asking for more and more -- while forgetting to be thankful. This weekend I want you to think about what we just discussed --- where do you put your trust? Until tomorrow, keep walking Dare To Dream Big Victor Have you been blessed? Would you like to share your story with the world? Reach out to others --- you never know what a difference you might make to someone else

Feb 19, Never Enough Time

Fri, 19 Feb 2010 14:36:51 GMT
Consider this -- every single human being is allotted a certain number of years, months, weeks, days, hours, minutes and seconds on this earth. Once you use that minute or hour ---it is gone for good. So a question you should consider asking yourself is --Am I making the best use of my time? If you answer "no" than you must decide the changes you need to make. Bear in mind that many people go around trying to change "others" in order to attain happiness for themselves. ****** "Don't let the fear of the time it will take to accomplish something stand in the way of you doing it. The time will pass anyway; we might just as well put that passing time to the best possible use. " -quote by Earl Nightingale ****** If you want to be happy --it is you who has to change. Perhaps, your way of thinking, perhaps your way of acting, perhaps your way of living -- happiness starts from within it is our own interpretation of what is happening around us and our reaction to it. ****** ***** "There are those of us who are always about to live. We are waiting until things change, until there is more time, until we are less tired, until we get a promotion, until we settle down -- until, until, until. It always seems as if there is some major event that must occur in our lives before we begin living." -quote by George Sheeha ***** "If you wait to do everything until you're sure it's right, you'll probably never do much of anything." -quote by Win Borden ***** As you can see -- it is not a question of not having enough time -- but rather a question of how you choose to use your time. Do you agree or disagree? Let's hear what you have to say. Until tomorrow, keep walking Dare To Dream Big Victor

Feb 18, The First Step Is often The Hardest

Thu, 18 Feb 2010 18:22:01 GMT
Overcoming procrastination & fear and then taking that first step can be an extremely difficult thing to do for many people. However, it is a crucial step that must be taken if one is to make a meaningful change in his life. Procrastination & fear can become a vicious cycle and a self-fulfilling prophesy until you take that first step. Do you agree or disagree? Let's hear what you have to say. ****** "It is not because things are difficult that we do not dare; it is because we do not dare that they are difficult. --quote by Seneca [1st century A.D.] ******** So the answer to overcoming fear is to take action. Stop thinking and start doing. ***** "Life does not consist in thinking, it consists in acting." -quote by Woodrow Wilson, 1912 ***** To succeed at any goal you set, you must develop a mindset [way of thinking] that no matter what happens you will overcome any obstacle that comes your way. So now the choice is yours -- do you choose to continue to immerse yourself in your worries, fears, problems? OR do you choose to take action in finding a way out? Only YOU can decide Focus on possibilities ----not on reasons why you can't succeed. Until tomorrow, keep walking Victor Do you agree or disagree? Let's hear what you have to say.

Feb 17, Take Responsibility For Yourself

Wed, 17 Feb 2010 14:42:50 GMT
A simple quote for you to think about. ***** "Few blame themselves until they have exhausted all other possibilities." --Anonymous. ***** Once you put aside all excuses and you come to the realization you have to take responsibility for your life -- then you will be heading in the right direction. Why? Because now you have "empowered" yourself. Many people spend their life "pointing fingers", blaming others or blaming circumstances for their money problems, their health problems, their emotional problems, etc. The list is endless. Once you put the burden on yourself -- then you have the opportunity to choose how you will handle the situation. Remember the following: "You must take personal responsibility. You cannot change the circumstances, the seasons, or the wind, but you can change yourself. That is something you have charge of. You don't have charge of the constellations, but you do have charge of whether you read, develop new skills, and take new classes." -quote by Jim Rohn ***** When you make a mistake --- learn from it. When someone else makes a mistake that impacts you -- learn from it. Use the knowledge you acquire to avoid the same situations in the future. If you don't -- shame on you. Let me share with you a video which I turn to often, because it demonstrates the very important principal of looking at your life from a new perspective. Look within - decide what you need to change and head out into the world with a new outlook, confident that you are headed in the right direction. Being successful is a process. You have to learn to accept responsibility for yourself. You have to learn from your mistakes, and you have to take constructive action to keep moving in the right direction. There will be setbacks, disappointments and detours --but you get to decide how you will react when you encounter these situations. Until tomorrow, keep walking Dare To Dream Big Victor

Feb 15, Stop Dreaming -- Start Doing

Mon, 15 Feb 2010 14:15:48 GMT
"Behold the turtle. He makes progress only when he sticks his neck out." -quote by James B. Conant ******* "Only those who will risk going too far can possibly find how far one can go." -quote by T. S. Elliot ***** Dreaming is wonderful, but there comes a time in your life when you have to stop dreaming -- and you have to start doing {taking action} in order to make your dreams into reality. Taking "action" can be scary, because it may all be new to you. However, if you never take that first step all you will have is a "dream." Scroll down this page and read my Jan 2, 2010, Don't Be Afraid Of Making A Mistake blog. Be encouraged in knowing that every single one of us on this earth has made mistakes. Those who succeed --pick themselves up and continue their journey. Believe that you can -- then start. Until tomorrow, keep walking. Dare To Dream Big Victor

Feb 14, Use Your Time Wisely

Sun, 14 Feb 2010 16:18:00 GMT
"Dost thou love life? Then do not squander time; for that's the stuff life is made of." --quote by Benjamin Franklin Are you missing someone you love? Read more follow link below

Feb 12, GOD'S PROTECTION AND FAVOUR

Fri, 12 Feb 2010 17:53:40 GMT
GOD HAS PROTECT ME AND MY FAMILY FROM TROUBLE AND SICKNESS I TRUSTED GOD FOR A JOB. AND HE GAVE ME TWO AT THE SAME TIME. THOUGH I SETTLE AT ONE, IT IS

Feb 11, Simple Yet Wise Quotes

Thu, 11 Feb 2010 21:59:15 GMT
Collection of simple yet wise quotes to empower you.

Feb 9, Your Daily Dose of Motivation

Tue, 09 Feb 2010 20:33:27 GMT
Collection of our daily blogs which aim to give you your daily dose of motivation, inspiration & empowerment. You also get advice on goal setting, relationship & conflict resolution.

Feb 9, Motivation Blog Archives For December 23-31, 2009

Tue, 09 Feb 2010 20:29:26 GMT
Collection of Motivation Blog Archives For December 23-31, 2009

Feb 9, Motivation Blog Archives For December 16-22, 2009

Tue, 09 Feb 2010 18:51:47 GMT
Collection of Motivation and Empowering Blog Archives For December 16-22, 2010

Jan 3, Decide What Direction You Will Take

Sun, 03 Jan 2010 15:48:39 GMT
As you start this new year it is important that you decide what is important to you. If you really want to make changes in your life -- you need to plan what direction you will take. One of the best ways to make the changes you want is by having a plan you can follow. Your written plan is a list of your goals {as detailed as possible} -- your goals show you the direction you are headed towards. Let's review the steps you need to take in order to reach your goals {put your plan in action}. Step #1 Commit to change. Step #2 Sit down and write the benefits of your decision. Write down what your new goals are & what you will gain. Step # 3Set a (reasonable) time-line for you goals. Step #4 Sit in a quiet place and look at what you have written down. You are going to fine-tune your roadmap. Make sure goals & time line are realistic----- and that you Make The Necessary Changes Step #5 Keep going-- Insuring to replace all the previously negative habits with new empowering habits. Side-note {making changes & sticking to them is sometimes difficultkeep your mind focused on those things that inspire & empower you. -- The library is a great place to find books on people who have made great changes in their life. Take a book out--carry it with youread it during lunch or on your way to & from work.} I suggest that you go back and read all the past blogs in which I have explained how belief, focus and other factors affect your decisions. Blog Archives Take a good look at yourself and decide what you need to change in order to move forward -- So take inventory = 1. Who do you spend time with? 2. Where do you spend your time? 3. How do you spend your time? 4. What do you feed your mind? Note Self assessment is one of the most important steps as you start your journey -- bad habits, bad friends and old ways of thinking need to change if you want to get different results. "He who knows others is learned; He who knows himself is wise." Quote by Lao-tzu Please take note that your goal is to change yourself --how you think, how you act, what you do , how you spend your time, the action you take{empowering yourself}. You take control of your future as you decide the direction your life will take. Think about the things we have discussed today -- and take action. Until tomorrow, keep walking Dare To Dream Big Victor

Jan 2, Don't Be Afraid Of Making A Mistake

Sat, 02 Jan 2010 16:09:32 GMT
Some people are so afraid of making a mistake that they never reach their full potential -- -- they dream of what could be -- but stay stuck in their "comfort zone" never to realize their dreams. Are you one of those people? Is something holding you back from heading towards your dream? ***** "It is only those who never do anything who never make mistakes." quote by A. Favre ***** It is not the "mistake" that matters - what matters is whether or not you learn from your mistakes. Life consists of doing, and learning, adjusting and doing some more. Every single person who has decided to head towards their "dream" has had to overcome obstacles & difficulties. What enabled them to succeed? They overcame their fear and took action. ***** "Nothing will ever be attempted if all possible objections must be overcome." quote by Samuel Johnson ***** You cannot sit and wait for everything to be "just perfect" before you head towards your goals. I have often said that good things need to be repeated. So watch, listen and apply. Once you believe --You will realize that you are much more capable, and have much greater abilities than you thought possible. Once you take your first step -- new possibilities will start to open up for you. Don't be afraid of making a mistake -- head towards your goal determined that nothing will stop you from reaching it. You will be amazed how much progress you can make when you believe. Until tomorrow, keep walking Dare To Dream Big Victor

Jan 1, A New Day, A New Beginning

Fri, 01 Jan 2010 16:27:27 GMT
As you begin your New Year -- start by being thankful -- remember to tell those that have influenced your life in a positive way -thanks Do not assume that others know what is in your heart or your mind. Family and friends need to "hear" that you appreciate them. So do it now -- call them, write them, email them, text them --whatever works for you. Spend some time today reviewing the past year -- on what you learned -- make any adjustment you need to make -- and continue on your self- improvement journey. You set the pace at which you will move forward. You may need to make some hard choices -- do not put this step off -- Learn to deal with tough issues as soon as they appear. ***** "Your believe determines your action and your actions determine your results, but first you have to believe." quote by Mark Victor Hansen ***** Note Remember the importance of "starting off on the right foot" -- this means being prepared, knowing where you are headed, knowing which roads you want to avoid. So take today to reflect on the past year -be thankful & do what you know needs to be done, and prepare yourself for the rest of your life. ***** Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him and He shall direct your paths. Proverbs 3:5-6 ***** Fill your mind with possibilities, fill your mind with empowering thoughts, fill your mind with a clear vision of what you want to accomplish --- than take action to get you there. Until tomorrow, keep walking Dare To Dream Big Victor Do you agree or disagree? Let's hear what you have to say. Have you been blessed? Would you like to share your story with the world? Reach out to others --- you never know what a difference you might make to someone else

Dec 31, The Time Will Pass Quickly - So Use It Wisely

Thu, 31 Dec 2009 14:54:15 GMT
Wishing a happy and safe New Year wish to all our readers around the world. As you embark {or prepare to embark} on your journey in this new year remember the lessons you learned in 2009. Your life consists of making choices and taking action. Whether you make the right choices and take the proper action is entirely up to you. Part of the process of making choices is by reflecting on what we have done in the pass. I ask that you start your new year by focusing on all the blessings you have received --- and not on what you lack. ***** This thought process will propel you in a positive direction. Remember the words of Charles Dickens: "Reflect on your blessings of which every person has many, not on your past misfortunes, of which all people have some." ****** And the words of Pope John XXIII "Consult not your fears but your hopes and your dreams. Think not about your frustrations, but about your unfulfilled potential. Concern yourself not with what you tried and failed in, but with what it is still possible for you to do." ****** You have the power to change your life if you summons the courage to make the changes you know need to be made. Remember the words of Woodrow Wilson: "Life does not consist in thinking, it consists in acting." ***** Start by making a decision that you need to change, then follow the steps we have outlined in our Five Step Action Plan Develop a mentality that you will continue to learn and apply what you learn to move towards your goals. Remember that everyone has setbacks in their life --If you stumble -- you need to keep going {slow down but don't stop} Lastly, you must develop a strong will, a determination that you will not quit. Until tomorrow, keep walking Dare To Dream Big Victor Start by making a decision that you need to change, then follow the steps we have outlined in our Five Step Action Plan Do you agree or disagree? Let's hear what you have to say.

Dec 30, Countdown To The New Year

Wed, 30 Dec 2009 17:54:29 GMT
The older we get the faster time seems to fly by. Once it is gone -- it is gone for good. Something else to consider --each and every one of us has an allotted amount of time on this earth. So the question I want you to consider, as the new year approaches, is --- How effectively are you using your allotted time? Any minutes wasted are gone forever. Have you put off doing something that you know needs to get done? Have you neglected to tell someone you are sorry? Have you been meaning to call or visit someone? Have you neglected to tell someone "I miss your" or "I love You" -- Why are you still waiting? Don't let the fear of the time it will take to accomplish something stand in the way of you doing it. The time will pass anyway; we might just as well put that passing time to the best possible use. quote by Earl Nightingale *********** There are those of us who are always about to live. We are waiting until things change, until there is more time, until we are less tired, until we get a promotion, until we settle down -- until, until, until. It always seems as if there is some major event that must occur in our lives before we begin living. quote by George Sheehan ********** As you prepare to celebrate the new year, remember to stay focused on the goals that you have set. As long as you continue to learn -- you never really fail--- what others may consider failure -- you should consider a learning experience, which will give you another "experience building block" which you can add to your toolbox. Do not allow little setbacks to end your journey --simply take a detour and keep going. Until tomorrow, keep walking Dare To Dream Big Victor Do you agree or disagree? Let's hear what you have to say.

Dec 29, Motivation Blog Archives For December 8-15, 2009

Tue, 29 Dec 2009 16:41:17 GMT
Collection of Motivation Blog Archives For December 8-15, 2009

Dec 29, As The New Year Approaches

Tue, 29 Dec 2009 14:47:36 GMT
During the holiday season as we reconnect with family and friends, let's remember to stay committed to the changes we want to make in our lives. Enjoy the time you spend with family and friends -- commit to stay in touch -- commit to listen to each other more often, and commit to share what you have learned with others. Be thankful for all that you have and are about to receive. Share whatever you can with those that have need, and encourage those that need encouragement. A very large component of "the empowerment process" is understanding that giving back by helping others is essential. Simplify your life and remember choose who you spend time with wisely A simple quote with a strong message. *********** Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great. quote by Mark Twain ************ Until tomorrow, keep walking Dare To Dream Big Victor Do you agree or disagree? Let's hear what you have to say.

Dec 25, Merry Christmas To All

Fri, 25 Dec 2009 15:55:46 GMT
Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him and He shall direct your paths. Proverbs 3:5-6 Please enjoy your time with family and friends, remembering to say a prayer for all the people in the world who have not been as blessed as you. Until tomorrow, remember to be thankful Dare To Dream Big Victor

Dec 24, Today We Celebrate Christmas Eve

Thu, 24 Dec 2009 16:14:24 GMT
This evening is a very special time for many people around the world. Many will celebrate it as a holiday, while many more will remember the real meaning of Christmas. We ask that each and everyone one of you stop to reflect on your life and gives thanks for all that you have. Please focus on how you have been blessed, and not on what you are lacking. Remember that there are so many millions of people around the world who have little or nothing at all. So be thankful -- You may not consider what you have as much but.... Just remember that there is always someone in a worst situation than you. And the important thing to have in mind is -- that you are not comparing what you have with others, but rather that you are just being thankful that you have it. With men it is impossible; but to God all things are possible. Matthew 19:26 May each and every single one of you be blessed beyond your wildest imagination -- so that you in turn, may bless others. Have you been blessed? Would you like to share your story with the world? Reach out to others --- you never know what a difference you might make to someone else Until tomorrow, keeping walking Dare To Dream Big Victor

Dec 23, Some Words To Think About

Wed, 23 Dec 2009 14:27:57 GMT
The Empowering Quotations web site is here to help you expand your knowledge and to empower you. One of the fundamental principles that we teach, is to learn from what others have already said and done. We sincerely believe that words have power. Words have the power to persuade, to encourage, to make you laugh, and to make your cry. As this year quickly approaches its end, we ask that you consider the words we have reprinted below and think about the changes you need to make this coming year. Remember that: you have the ability to reach any goal you set your mind to -- as long as you are willing to empower yourself and take the necessary steps to complete your journey. ******* When one door of happiness closes, another one opens; But often we look so long at the closed door we do not see the one that has been opened for us. quote by Helen Keller. ******** It is hard to fail; but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. quote by Theodore Roosevelt ************ If you believe in yourself and have the courage, the determination, the dedication, the competitive drive and if you are willing to sacrifice the little things in life and pay the price for the things that are worthwhile, it can be done. quote by Vince Lombardi ************* Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great. quote by Mark Twain ************** 1 If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. 3 If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing. 1 Corinthians 13:1-3 ************* To strike the chains of a slave is noble. To leave him the captive of the color of his skin is hypocrisy. While we in America have freed the slave of his chains, we have not freed his heirs of their color. Until justice is blind to color, until education is unaware of race, until opportunity ceases to squint its eyes at pigmentation of human complexions, emancipation will be a proclamation but it will not be a fact. Lyndon B. Johnson Address at Wayne State Univ. Jan. 6, 1963 ************ Set you sight on big goals, than prepare yourself for your journey. Just take one step after the other, rest when you must, but never give up. Set your own pace and keep walking. Until tomorrow remember to - Dare To Dream Big But take action Victor Do you agree or disagree? Let's hear what you have to say.

Dec 22, Life Consists Of Making Choices

Tue, 22 Dec 2009 15:49:49 GMT
Our daily lives consist of making one choice after another. The choices you make will determine whether you reach your goal or not. Yesterday we discussed the fact that you will encounter many obstacles on your journey. So remember that every choice you make, big & small, will produce results that either push you forward or hold you back. The true measure of who you are and how strongly you desire to succeed is will become evident when times get hard. *** The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy. quote by Martin Luther King Jr. *** Note The choice is yours to make. Remember the importance of the total package -- --- your thoughts, your words, your actions, how together they work to either push you forward, or hold you back. If you have been following our Blogs, some of this may sound familiar. And you are right, you see good things need to be repeated until they become second nature to us. AND----they replace the old negative habits that seem to grab a hold of our minds. The old you has to change in order to head in your new direction ------ towards your goals. You have to take inventory, are you friends & acquaintances headed in your direction--- --or----are they holding you back from your selfimprovement journey? Only you can answer this question-------Rest assured that you will get criticism and sometimes even hostility when you make a choice to reach for your goals. Why? There are some people who are afraid of change-------so they would rather stay in their safe zone even if it a place with a dead end. The simple but true fact of life is that you become like those you closely associate -- -- for the good and the bad. Deciding who you will spend your time with is your choice -- so choose wisely -- but stay focused on where you want to go as you decide. Sometimes the hardest part ----is taking that first step-------go ahead eat that frog & continue your journey. As you move closer and closer to your goal the decisions you will have to make will get more difficult. Why? Because you may have to make changes to things you are familiar with such as: the places you go to, the foods you eat, the books and movies you read and see and of course -- the people you spend time with. The power is in your hands -- use it wisely. Until tomorrow, keep walking Dare To Dream Big Victor

Dec 21, The Path To Your Goals Has Detours

Mon, 21 Dec 2009 17:07:46 GMT
You will encounter roadblocks, obstacles, and objections on your journey as you head towards your goals. However, by facing these obstacles you will learn how to overcome the many others you will face in the future. Each and every roadblock you overcome becomes a building block in your "experience toolbox." Do not allow the fear of doing what needs to be done slow you down or stop you. ******** We gain strength and courage, and confidence by each experience in which we really stop to look fear in the face... We must do that which we think we cannot. quote by Eleanor Roosevelt ********* Do you agree or disagree? Let's hear what you have to say. Stay focused --stay motivated--stay empowered--learn from others. Until tomorrow, keep walking Dare To Dream Big Victor

Dec 20, The Life You Live Has An Influence On Others

Sun, 20 Dec 2009 15:13:20 GMT
What impact are you having on those around you? Take some quiet time today and think about this. ****** Reflect on your blessings of which every person has many, not on your past misfortunes, of which all people have some. quote by Charles Dickens ************ Live in such a way that you would not be ashamed to sell your parrot to the town gossip. quote by Will Rogers ************ We humans do not live in a vacuum, our words and our actions touch others in different ways. So before you speak, and before you act --take a step back and reflect how you influence the lives of others. Until tomorrow, keep walking Dare To Dream Big Victor

Dec 19, Fill Your Mind With Empowering Thoughts

Sat, 19 Dec 2009 16:45:50 GMT
What are kind of thoughts are you planting in your mind? Do you realize that whatever you plant will produce fruit after its kind? Are you planting fear, regret, sadness, hate? Whatever you think about the most is what you are planting. Here's thegood news you have the power to change. Read the following quote, write it down or print it out and carry it with you. Plant the seed --that no "matter what" --you will continue to reach for your goal. **** If I had to select one quality, one personal characteristic that I regard as being most highly correlated with success, whatever the field, I would pick the trait of persistence. Determination; the will to endure to the end, get knocked down seventy times and get up saying "here comes number seventy-one!" quote by Richard M. Devoss **** Remember --it is all up to you. Let's hear what you have to say Until tomorrow, keep walking Dare To Dream Big Victor

Dec 18, Motivation Blog Archives For December 1-7, 2009

Fri, 18 Dec 2009 18:55:47 GMT
Collection Of Motivation Blog Archives For December 1-7, 2009

Dec 18, DARE TO DREAM BIG

Fri, 18 Dec 2009 16:33:24 GMT
Yes "Dare TO Dream Big"---and take action. This is the crucial step that everyone must take to make their dream come true. Dreaming is the start, it is the seed that grows in your mind, but to bring this dream to life (reality) you must act. Remember that: ***** Life does not consist in thinking, it consists in acting. quote by Woodrow Wilson ****** The power to take action is in your hands, it always has been -- so it is you who decides whether to act or not --- do not blame anyone else. ***** Don't let the fear of the time it will take to accomplish something stand in the way of you doing it. quote by Earl Nightingale ***** Earl had it right. Often time we are our own worst enemy. Why? Because we make a list in our mind as to why we cant do something. 1. Dont have the time. 2. Dont have the money. 3. Dont know how. 4. Im too old. 5. Im afraid of failure. 6. Ill never change. 7. etc..etc..etc.. And the list goes on. So how do you start? Change your focus- look at the possibilities---focus on what you do want---chart a course to get there. Yes you do need a map if you dont know where you are going. That road map is here. Start by filling your mind with positive thoughts. Empower yourself with the wisdom of people who have been through tough times. Stop-Look & Listen. ****** If you wait to do everything until you're sure it's right, you'll probably never do much of anything. quote by Win Borden ***** Just start! And please remember to smile as you start your journey. Get excited. Until tomorrow, keep walking Dare to Dream Big -- but also take action Victor PS please remember -Don't Ever Give UP.

Dec 17, It All Starts With You

Thu, 17 Dec 2009 15:35:34 GMT
Whether you believe you can accomplish something or not makes it so for you. So the first question to ask is --"what do you believe?" You can apply this process to any topic. Once you have stated "what you believe" -- the next question to ask is "why do you believe that?" Your answer will be -- "because" The statement you make after the "because" is either an "empowering statement" or a "limiting belief." As the names imply, your belief will either motivate you or hold you back. If your belief is a limiting believe -- in other words, a belief that states why you cannot do something -- here is what you need to do. 1. Question the belief. Ask yourself "why" you believe that way. Ask yourself who taught you that belief. 2. Look around and see if someone else believes the opposite. Look to see what that other person is doing that enables them to overcome your "limiting belief." Do you agree or disagree? Let's hear what you have to say. The point here is to determine whether your belief is real or not {if your belief doesn't stop others from accomplishing their goals -- then your belief is false.) For example, "limiting belief" --I'm too old -- I'm too young -- I don't have the money -- I don't have the time -- I don't have the education -- I don't have the experience --etc. So now that you know what a limiting belief is ----be on the look-out. Listen to yourself SPEAK-----AND---listen to yourself THINK When you catch yourself thinking or speaking a limiting belief---STOP! Rephrase what you were saying or thinking into something positive and move on. "The good Lord gave you a body that can stand most anything. It's your mind you have to convince." quote by Vince Lombardi ****** It all starts with you. Accepting responsibility for your life and your actions puts the "power in your hands." You now get to decide what steps you will take to reach your goals. Do you Until tomorrow, keep walking Dare To Dream Big Victor Do you agree or disagree? Let's hear what you have to say. PS-- read more on beliefs from our past blogs

Dec 16, What Happens When You Keep Putting Things Off?

Wed, 16 Dec 2009 15:54:35 GMT
The short answer is they never get done. The long answer is that procrastination creeps in allowing you to create one excuse after another justifying why you will not take action. Have you ever experienced procrastination? Once it starts to grow, it is harder and harder to overcome it. Note I have good news. The answer to overcoming procrastination is to stop thinking & start doing. Sometimes "over-analyzing" something gets in the way of getting things done --{and it can become an excuse for not starting.} Tony Robbins, a well know motivational speaker recommends taking "massive action" as a way to change your life. I have a great deal of respect for Tony and he has proven that his methods work, but here is the catch, people are different --what works for one may not necessarily work for another. If you are unable to take "massive action" to change your life --than take a smaller step--- Build up your confidence and take another small step The important thing is to start. Here is what you need to remember -- even if the step you take does not work, at least you have learned something. As long as you are learning (get experience) than you are better off than yesterday. That is what human existence is all about -- learning new things, and applying that knowledge in order to improve our lives. Note Remember that every single human being on this earth makes mistakes. What is important is to use what you learn to take better action, and thus continue to learn and grow. ********** Far better it is to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure, than to take rank with those poor souls who neither enjoy much nor suffer much, because they live in the gray twilight that knows neither victory nor defeat. quote by Theodore Roosevelt *************************** I have great news for you-- if you are reading this blog, than you are headed in the right direction. Why? Because you are taking action and learning; now apply this knowledge and head for your goal. Fill your mind with possibilities, fill your mind with empowering thoughts, fill your mind with a clear vision of what you want to accomplish --- than take action to get you there. Until tomorrow, keep walking Dare To Dream Big Victor

Dec 15, If You Fail To Plan --You Plan To Fail-part 1

Tue, 15 Dec 2009 15:24:04 GMT
As the new year approaches many people will start thinking about "New Year Resolutions" -- or changes they would like to make in their lives. However, for many, by mid January those "resolutions" are somehow forgotten. What about you? How can you insure that what you plan to do -will actually happen? The best way is to be committed and have a plan in place that guides you and explains to you the steps you need to take (and why they are important)-- Let me help you prepare you for the journey ahead. Back in July I posted on this web site a Five Step Action Plan to guide you in reaching your goals. But here is the important thing you have to remember; You need to do a little everyday in order to stay committed. Life has a way of pulling you in different directions and before you know it you lose your way (you start putting off things you know need to be done) Below I am re-posting that article on the Five Step Action Plan -- BUT what I suggest you do is to go back and read all the blogs from July on. Why? Because I break down the 5 steps and explain how both internal and external factors influence your decisions and ultimately your results. So prepare yourself now --when the New Year starts, you will be ready for your journey. Below is the re-post of the Five Step Action Plan

Dec 15, If You Fail To Plan -- You Plan To Fail-part 2

Tue, 15 Dec 2009 15:19:01 GMT
continued from above We have spent the last few days discussing the importance of following through on making the necessary personal changes in order to reach your new goals. So let me summarize what we have covered in the last few days: Step #1 Commit to change. Step #2 Sit down and write the benefits of your decision. Write down what your new goals are & what you will gain. Step # 3Set a (reasonable) time-line for you goals. Step #4 Sit in a quiet place and look at what you have written down. You are going to fine-tune your roadmap. Make sure goals & time line are realistic----- and that you Make The Necessary Changes Step #5 Keep going-- Insuring to replace all the previously negative habits with new empowering habits. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx NOTEa short list of things you may need to change- Friends {are they a positive or negative influence?} Leisure time activities {TV shows-radio shows-reading material-phone time, internet time, bar time, etc} Foods you eat- {healthy or not? What you keep your mind focused on{does it empower or not?} ***Hope you have notice that I have purposely called these steps to be taken*** which means that they may or may not happen in a day or a week. Each one of you will march to a different drummer BUT---if you continue to make changes and continue to take steps towards your goals You will get there. As you take one small step after another you will build courage & confidence in your abilities. Other people just like you have been able to change their lives by committing to change---------------so can you. Ill see you tomorrow will more words of encouragementtill thenkeep walking Dare To Dream Big Victor

Dec 12, Learn From Your Mistakes--pat 1

Sat, 12 Dec 2009 16:31:16 GMT
Are you learning from your mistakes, or do you continue to make them over and over again? Sit down in a quiet place and review the decisions you have made concerning your relationships, your friends, your jobs, your kids, your direction in life. Have you had relationships that seem to end up the same? Are the friends you choose providing the support you need to succeed? Are you unhappy with your job? Are you having children you cannot afford to provide for? Are you living day-to-day with no plans or a direction? If you answered yes -- than you have not learned (enough) from your mistakes, because you are repeating them. The good news is that you can still learn and change. Note The minute that you stop and question the decisions you have had in the past, is the minute that you can start to change your life. This is so because now you are evaluating your pass choices and comparing them to the results you have gotten. This is a positive step in your learning process. Now the question is --will you make the necessary changes to move in a different direction? Read what a famous person had to say: All the adversity I've had in my life, All my trouble and obstacles Have strengthened me. quote by Walt Disney ******** Pay close attention to what Mr. Disney said, he learn from his mistakes, he used the experience as a source of strength. He did not sit around complaining "why me" or pointing fingers -blaming others-- this is what it means to learn from your mistakes. Thomas Edison, one of the world's greatest inventors, tried and failed thousands of times before he invented the light bulb. What do you think he had to say about his mistakes? ********* "I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work" ************* Success is a matter of continuing to seek to improve your mind, your body, your skills and taking action. It is not about complaining and continuing to do the same things. The question is How do you start? The answer is ---that the minute you asked the question -- you have started. Listen to these words of encouragement, then make the tough decisions you know you need to make. Next find something that gives you encouragement-(a web site, a book, a quote, a friend, a teacher, etc) and fill your mind with empowerment. Make a plan (set goals) and take you next step. One step after the other will get you there. ***Always focus on your goals --- never on the problems continue below

Dec 12, Learn From Your Mistakes--part 2

Sat, 12 Dec 2009 16:24:35 GMT
continue from above An important lesson to remember-- everybody has problems and makes mistakes, -- successful people use what they learn from their mistakes to move forward-- -- unsuccessful people stay focused on the mistake. Some clues to look for: Successful people --talk about solutions, plan other approaches, stay optimistic, believe they can accomplish their goal, model other people who have succeeded, accept responsibility. unsuccessful people--talk about the problem, get depressed, blame others, do not believe that they can overcome the obstacles, do not accept responsibility. I hope that this exercise has helped you to identify what you need to do to deal with mistakes, and setbacks, and put you in a frame of mind --- that you can overcome any difficulty that crosses your path. Until tomorrow, keep walking Dare To Dream Big Victor