Here you will find your daily dose of no nonsense advice in our Empowering Blog Archives.
So if you missed any of our daily postings ---- this is the place to find them-starting with October 15-21, 2009.
Don't forget that included in our July daily Blogs is our original 5 Step Action Plan on how to achieve your goals.
We hope to keep you inspired & motivated as we give you a cupful of reality with our empowering blog archives. We offer straight forward - down - to - earth - no - nonsense, easy to follow advice.
In addition, we recommend books & other materials which we believe will help you stay empowered --- and will help you to reach your goals.
As usual, our empowering blogs aim to keep things simple, so that you can implement these empowering steps very quickly.
Just remember that besides reading these empowering blogs, you need to take action to reach your goal.
We also seek to keep you inform on important topics that affect you & your family.
As always, this Blog is about you --- so remember to keep your feedback, questions, and suggested topics coming in, this way everyone benefits.
I recommend that you read all the blogs starting with July. You will find that they build on each other and continue to reinforce the important concepts you need to remember.
Our empowering blogs review and repeat key steps that you need to take in order to reach your goal.
We believe that these import concepts need to become "second nature" or habits so that you don't even have to think about them as you implement them.
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Step # 4 Of The 5 Step Action Plan
October 15, 2009
Today we continue with our discussion on the 5 Step Action Plan. A plan to change your life.
So far we have outlined 3 steps that you need to take on your journey to change.
Let’s recap:
Step #1 Commit to change.
Step # 2. Sit down and write what your new goals are. Write down what you will gain & the benefits of your decision.
Step # 3—Set a (reasonable) time-line for your goals.
We need to stop here for a moment to insure that the foundation on which you are building your change is strong.
Step #4 You are going to fine-tune your goals {road-map}. Today I want you to sit in a quiet place and look at what you have written down.
Side-note—{I find that the local library is a great place to go when you need to think & take notes—you are alone & yet you’re not.}
Do the goals you have listed make sense to you?
In other words are they realistic to you and do they motivate you?—you need to keep it real..
Things to look for:
Are your goals specific? example: saying I want to be rich, or I want to own a car etc.
These are generalized statements -- not specific enough.
Can progress be measured? example: (time-line needed) By June of 2010 I will have lost 20 pounds...etc. ---
your time-line also helps you to break down you main goal into smaller sub-goals.
As you reach each sub-goal, it brings you closer to your main goal.
What changes need to be made to keep you on track? very importantyou will usually have to change some of your old habits in order to reach your new goals--
List the changes, these is turn become sub-goals that you need to accomplish in order to reach your main goal.
They also provide a track record of your accomplishments, which keeps you motivated.
Side-note –{making changes & sticking to them is sometimes difficult}—keep your mind focused on those things that inspire & empower you.
The library is a great place to find books on people who have made great changes in their life.
Take a book out--carry it with you—read it during lunch or on your way to & from work.
Writing down goals and saying I am going to change is not enough ----- you must make the necessary changes {break old habits} in order to reach your goals.
And you will have to be prepared { as you continue your journey} to make minor adjustments.
Now that you have your road-map intact it’s time to continue on your journey.
A thousand mile journey start with that first step---just keep walking.
Today we continue with our discussion on the 5 Step Action Plan. A plan to change your life.
So far we have outlined 4 steps that you need to take on your journey to change. Let’s recap:
Step #1 Commit to change.
Step # 2. Sit down and write what your new goals are. Write down what you will gain & the benefits of your decision.
Step # 3—Set a (reasonable) time-line for your goals.
Step #4 Sit in a quiet place and look at what you have written down. You are going to fine-tune your road-map.
Make sure goals & time line are realistic----- and that you Make The Necessary Changes
Yesterday (in Step # 4)we talked about fine tuning your written goals. We said that the goals have to be:
1. Specific
2. Measurable
3. And changes need to be made.
Today we will talk a little more on item #3(and changes need to be made ) of Step #4.
Let's talk aboutthe personal changes -you have to make in order to continue your journey.
For many people this is one of the hardest steps to take. Why?Please note that for most people life is very routine.
In other words, they usually do the same thing almost every day. Very often these routines have become habits---things you do & not even think about.
{Remember –if you keep doing what you were doing before—you will keep getting the same results}
So take inventory
1. Who do you spend time with?
2. Where do you spend your time?
3. How do you spend your time?
4. What do you feed your mind? {we will discuss this item is greater detail tomorrow}
You can add to the list as you see fit…..The point is you need to be brutally honest on how these factors are impacting your journey (the decisions you make).
Are they empowering you -or- are they holding you back?
Keep it if it helps you—get rid of it or change it if it holds you back.
Are the people you spend your time with encouraging you or are they negative influences?
Where do you spend your free time? Are you at a bar, gambling, talking nonsense with friends?
Are you using your time to learn, practice, motivate yourself? Or are you wasting it on non-productive activities?
This is just a small list of things you need to consider as you prepare yourself for your journey.
Why do I keep referring to this as a journey? Because reaching your goal takes time, preparation, determination and endurance.
You have to be ready to deal with changes and the unexpected. In most cases if you are not properly prepared, you won't make it.
So -- Make a decision and move on.
Until tomorrow, keep walking
Dare To Dream Big
Victor
October 17, 2009
Something To Think About
Welcome back,
We continue with our discussion on the 5 Step Action Plan. A plan to change your life.
Today we continued our discussion about Step #4 {making the personal changes necessary to move forward}
Yesterday we discussed the first three parts to this Step.
We spoke about:
1. Who do you spend time with?
2. Where do you spend your time?
3. How do you spend your time?
Today we’ll talk about the last part---What you are feeding your mind.
NOTE—--if you fill your body with junk---food—--you end up with an unhealthy body---the same rule applies to your mind.
Break the habit of feeding junk {negative thoughts} to your mind—--no matter where they are coming from.
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This is extremely important if not the most important point, You have to start nourishing your mind with empowering thoughts.
Taking personal responsibility empowers you. --Why?
Because, it puts the decision making process in your hands. YOUdecide how to best handle the situation you are in.
Note{Remember that if you are blaming someone else—then you want them to change—but you can’t control whether someone else changes or not.}
But you can change how you respond to any situation. Remember that this is all about You.
Sometimes you have to take a step or two back and review your situation.
Get a bigger view of what is going on, this allows you to make a better rational (not emotional) decision.
OK--so now you have the power------what do you do?
You decide what you personally need to change. You control how it will change. (this is part of the empowerment process)
You decide how quickly it will change.
You are in control.
By you deciding--you control your journey--your future, you empower yourself.
Become comfortable exercising your personal power. {remember that empowering yourself means -deciding on a course and taking action.}
I'll see you tomorrow--until then--keep walking.
Dare To Dream Big
Victor
October 21, 2009
Believe You Can & You Will
Welcome back,
It’s a beautiful day here in Central Florida. I plan on enjoying it.
What about you?
How do you see your day? Any day can be beautiful --- --if you choose to BELIEVE & see it that way.
And this principle applies to everything in life.
Look for the beauty in life-----Focus on things that are good--- --Fill your mind with thankfulness. All these things work together to keep you motivated and heading towards your goals.
Notenegative energy is counter-productive to what you want to achieve.
Do not let your mind linger on anything negative.
NOTE ---Our focus will determine our “state of being”—in other words –how we feel.
AND—how we feel will determine how we see our day.
Choose to fill your mind with positive, empowering thoughts.We spent a lot of time discussing –personal chances that each person has to make in order to move forward.
You have to change your old way of thinking—Start To Believe
When You Believe
So use a good positive video, a good positive book, a good positive song, anything that fills you with positive empowering energy --- that is how you stay motivated and on the road towards your goals.
Remember that once in a while you will have obstacles on your journey, sometimes you will fall down -- pick yourself up and keep going -- learns from your trials.